Seeing The Cycles
The Screaming & Subtle Signs of Toxic Relationships
Course Description
Hijackal : noun - hīˈjak(ə)l/ - a person who hijacks relationships for his/her own purposes. Then, relentlessly scavenges the relationship for power, status, and control.
This is your best next step towards stopping the crazy-making and saving your sanity when you have a Hijackal® in your life.
Clearly recognizing the crazy-making behaviors, patterns & cycles of Hijackals will save you from a lot of stress, pain and hurt.
Whether the Hijackal is your partner, ex, parent, friend, or co-worker, uncovering the traits, patterns, and cycles of Hijackals is essential to putting your finger on exactly WHY they are crazy-making.
That's not always easy to do because you have been worn and torn down, and maybe, are holding on by a thread. I want to help you see what's actually going on.
I'm Dr. Rhoberta Shaler. I created the term "Hijackal" to describe those relentlessly difficult, crazy-making people in life.
What's really required is to not only see their traits, patterns, and cycles, but to realize that you are participating, condoning, and enabling those in some ways. And, I know you want to stop! It's too hard. It's too frustrating. It's too exhausting. It's too confusing, chaotic, and uncertain.
You'll recognize that all that the Hijackal has blamed you for IS NOT YOUR FAULT! Understanding that down to your toes is a such a relief...and, you know you need relief!
So, let's go!
Get valuable perspectives that are hard to see when you're emotionally exhausted and feeling abused.
You'll clearly know:
You're not wrong, bad, foolish, lazy, or crazy. You're caught in the Hijackal Trap.
What you'll receive:
YOU MATTER!
Get access to the Seeing the Cycles right now. Get clarity. Start feeling stronger. You're not alone.
Working with people struggling with life, death, and relationship for over thirty years in Canada and the United States, Dr. Shaler has brought hope, comfort, strength, and success to countless people who honestly believed it was impossible. Even the United States Marines have used her services!
Dr. Shaler is the author of sixteen personal growth and relationship books. Her most recent ones are to help those struggling with relationships with these relentlessly difficult people, aka, Hijackals. She is the host of the internationally popular podcast, Save Your Sanity: Help for Toxic Relationship, and the creator of the Emerging Empowered Community and courses.
Rhoberta Shaler, PhD
Relationship Crisis Consultant
Starting Quiz: Are These Things Happening in Your Relationship? Could Be Hijackals!
Are You Being Verbally Abused?
HIJACKALS HAVE TO WIN
The NEED to Win Video
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Self-Study Personal Reflections on The Need to Win
OUT OF PROPORTION, MIS-MANAGED EMOTIONS
VIDEO - Hallmarks of Hijackals - Out of Proportion, Mismanaged Emotions
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Self-Study Personal Reflections on Out-of-Proportion Emotions
ALL-OR-NOTHING, BLACK-AND-WHITE THINKING
VIDEO - All or Nothing Thinking
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Self-Study Personal Reflections on All-or-Nothing Thinking
BLAMING YOU FOR EVERYTHING
VIDEO - Blaming & Guilt
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My Partner Always Blames Me for Everything. What Do I Do?
Self-Study Personal Reflections on Blame and Guilt
ALWAYS FINDING FAULT WITH YOU
VIDEO- Fault Finding
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The Boomerang of Blame: Why Difficult People Make It All Your Fault
Self-Study Personal Reflections on Fault-Finding
HIJACKALS HAVE A MISSING PIECE
VIDEO - Lack of Empathy
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TAKING NO RESPONSIBILITY OR ACCOUNTABILITY
VIDEO - Takes No Responsibility
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Self-Study Personal Reflections on Taking No Responsibility
VIEWING EVERYTHING FROM A NEGATIVE PERSPECTIVE
VIDEO - Usually Negative
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7 Warning Signs & Wake-Up Calls that Your Partner is MORE than Selfish
Self-Study Personal Reflections on Negative Mindsets
KEEPING THINGS VAGUE, UNCERTAIN & CHAOTIC
VIDEO - Ambiguity
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If You Have "Boundaryitis," You May Feel Like A Doormat.
Self-Study Personal Reflections on Ambiguity and Uncertainty
INCREDULITY: WHAT THEY SAY OR DO IS SO OUTRAGEOUS
VIDEO - Incredulity
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Self-Study Personal Reflections on Incredulity
Are You Living With A High-Conflict Person, a HIjackal®?
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